Friday, October 15, 2010

Crazy few weeks

It for sure has been a crazy few weeks. So much going on, I don't know where to start and I am quite sure I will not remember everything, but here goes...

Kari arrived on Monday evening (10-4)after driving all the way from Cincy. It was so wonderful to have her here for a few days. I had potato casserole waiting for her, along with Cindy's Made Right sandwiches. We ate on the deck and christened our new fire pit that Cindy and Tracy gave us. We made smores and they were yummy!
Tuesday we tackled the wallpaper in the dining room. At first it was very slow going, but then my sweet neighbor Kaye came over, gave us some tips and before you knew it we were on a roll. We didn't get to finish because on Wednesday we started our journey to Hachie, with a few stops along the way. We saw Cindy and my Dad, then drove on to OKC to spend the night with Kaci. Unfortunately we were late, so she was a little perturbed with us, but we made it up to her.


On Thursday, we met my Dad at the hospital for his radiation seeding. He did well, but after the procedure, Kari had to stay 5 ft. away from him! He was radioactive and will remain that way for a few months. We left the hospital around 1pm, met Kaci for a yummy lunch, went back to her house, got our things and Paisley, returned some things to Hobby Lobby for Kaci and headed south. About 20 miles south of Norman, I had the bright idea that we should have just stayed with Kaci that night instead of going to Dallas, so we called her, told her what we were thinking, turned around and drove all the way back to her house! I am so glad we did, we had a fun night and made some memories.

Friday, we actually made it to Waxahachie. We stopped by the school and saw John Aune, then met Ed at the hotel. And we waited...and waited... for Alissa and Oliver to get back from Austin! They were stuck in horrible traffic and a 2 1/2 hour trip turned into a 5 hour trip. They were both exhausted by the time they finally made it back to Mike and Cindy's house. Ed and I picked up Chicken Express (our Friday night before game dinner)and got to the Poynor's as fast as we could. Finally after 7 weeks I had that sweet baby boy in my arms! Oh my goodness, he is so precious and he had changed so much. I just couldn't put him down. Of course I had to share him with his Aunties, but I held him as much as I could. I would have taken him back to the hotel if his Mommy would have let me...

Saturday we visited with friends, had a great lunch with my 4th daughter Somer and heard her wonderful news (not at liberty to share, but hopefully soon) : ) We watched some football and held Oliver.

Sunday we took some pictures in Getzendaner Park, visited with Mrs. Cope and then it was time to leave. It was soooo hard to leave that little boy. And a very long drive home...








Kari left on Monday, so happy to have had a week to spend with her. I got busy on the wallpaper and had it almost completely done by the time Ed came home. He helped with a few areas I couldn't reach well and by that evening the only thing that remained was behind the fridge. Good thing too, because my dull headache became a migraine and I was down for the count on Tuesday. This was one of the worst I have had in a while. Finally started feeling better Wednesday evening. Thursday I finished the kitchen and started the half bath. It is almost done, just the areas behind the stool and sink that I need help with. Yayyyy!

And that brings us to today. Didn't sleep well last night, so today may not be as productive as I had hoped. But we will see.

Whewww, sorry this was so long, that's what happens when I take time off and don't write a little every day. Hopefully I will be better about writing in the future.

Monday, October 4, 2010

Kitty freakout and the resulting carnage...

So, as we lay peacefully in bed last night watching Mad Men, Puddy,for reasons still unknown, decided to completely freak out, scramble across my face, over Ed and off the bed. The picture below is the result of his panic attack.



I have since found several scratches on my scalp as well, thankfully they are hidden by my hair...

On a happier note, Kari is on her way!! She is staying with me a few days and then we will go to Texas and see the Poynors! Oh, who am I kidding, we are going to see Oliver!! : ) Getting to see his Mommy and Daddy is important too, but I haven't seen that sweet boy since he was 3 weeks old and now he is 2 months!

Kaci will come down on Friday after she gets off work. This will be the first time the five of us have been in Texas together since... well, I can't remember since when, it has been that long. Very excited to spend the weekend with my girls!!

Saturday, September 25, 2010

Eight years

So hard for me to believe it has been eight years since my Mom died. When I think of all the things she has missed, it makes me so sad. She has had 2 great grandsons born and there is another baby on the way. She missed seeing Alissa graduate from law school, Kari graduate from the Naval Academy, and Kaci from OU. She didn't get to see Doug marry a wonderful woman who loves his kids and she won't be here for her 9th grandchild's birth in December. This little one is even due on my parents wedding anniversary, which I truly believe Mom had something to do with...



I know she would have had so much fun exploring the East Coast and Boston with me and spending time with Alissa and Brek. She would have loved visiting Kari in Hawaii and Virginia Beach. I can just see her at some of the casino parties Kaci put together, she would have had a blast at those. I know she would have been so proud to visit each of the girls in the homes they have bought. She was so excited for me to move closer to her and we were both looking forward to spending more time together. I had been so busy raising my girls all these years that there wasn't much time left over and we hoped to make up for lost time. Unfortunately that wasn't to be. Cancer had other plans for us. Instead, we had 6 months of Dr.'s appts, chemo and hospital stays. Have I mentioned I HATE cancer?

Today I am visiting Kari in her new home of Cincinnati. I am glad to be with at least one of my girls. I try to go to the cemetery on this date and put the fall flowers out. I have them bought and will try and take them one day next week.

I miss you Mom, please keep watching over us and look out for my girls. I hope we have made you proud.

I love you.

Saturday, September 18, 2010

Can you say O-H-I-O

That is where I am traveling to next. With a stop in Nashville to visit my good friends the Lane's and another in Livingston to see my sweet Aunt Phyllis. Then it will be on to Cincy to see Kari's new home. Tried to get Cindy to go on the road trip with me, but couldn't talk her into it. So, going solo this trip.

Had another birthday this past week. Hard to believe I am 52 now. But I am and there is no getting around it. It was just another day around here, other than the 50+ messages on Facebook, the phone calls and the sweet cards I received, that is. But that was pretty much it. No cake,no presents, just a trip to the Dr. with Ed to have his shoulder looked at. Oh well, maybe next year...

Update...
Ed finally came thru, season tickets to the shows in Tulsa again this year...They arrived in today's mail.

Monday, September 13, 2010

On the road again...

About to load up and head to the big city again. I think this makes 3 times in the last 4 weeks. Might be a record for me. Thank goodness my baby girl lives there and can give her Moma a bed to sleep in.

We have an appointment in the morning with Dr. Taylor, the Radiation Oncologist. He will do a mapping of my Dad's prostate and then talk to us about the options to treat the cancer. We have hopefully caught it early and it can be wiped out easily. That's my prayer.

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

Headaches...who needs 'em?

Not me, that's for sure. I have had more than my share of them lately and I have to tell you, I am pretty tired of them. I have tried extra strength everything, hot showers, my neti pot...you get the picture. And yet, I still have headaches...

I am open to any and all suggestions to rid myself of these vile things...

Anybody?